There is a truth out there, that some of you ladies might find disturbing and unappreciated.
The truth is, he (whoever he is) finds others attractive, desirable and wants to have sex with them.
It doesn’t matter who “he” is. It doesn’t matter what “he” does in life.
The pastor of the largest church out there finds others desirable. He wants to have sex with others.
The pastor of the smallest church out there is just the same. Desire is in his heart.
President of the United States? Wants (and sometimes gets) the girls.
A really famous golf player? Lots of girls.
Your man, who simply goes to work, spends lots of times with the kids and make you feel like a million bucks? He is JUST THE SAME.
And just as true is: that the prettier the girl, the sexier, even more so guys want to take her, and ravage her.
As I heard Ron White say, “Once you see one woman naked. Well, you want to see all of them naked”. Good ole Ron. He speaks some truth!
Why do you think women get blamed for situations where men get out of control? Because at the very heart of the matter, the very nature of a man is wanton desire.
We. Want. Women. All of them. And RIGHT NOW, please!
Here is a test to find out if your man is a liar.
Ask your man, “Do you find others attractive?”. If he says “no”, he is a liar.
Ask your man, “Do you ever see others you would like to have sex with?” If he says “no”, he is a liar.
In our politically correct society, we have been brought up to not admit this. We have been taught to say, “Oh no darling, we only want you”. But this is a lie.
A man may CHOOSE to forgo others – and that is even popular in many marriage ceremonies. You know, the whole “forsaking others” bit. However, the words do not say, “turning off all desire for others”… It just means you agree to forsake others. And that is only if you agree to that little bit.
If you get a marriage license at your local courthouse, you simply agree to a legally binding marriage. It doesn’t state on the paperwork, nor does it come up in conversation with the person processing your application, that you will remain monogamous with each other. The “forsaking all others” is pretty much based in a religious convention. Women like that part, but the guys? Not so much. Regardless, in no case do you agree to turn off the desire burning within.
I was raised in a very strict religious household, that was taught that having the desire for sex was wrong. Unless you were married. Then only with that person. But, even one of the persons that taught me this found others attractive.
This, of course, reminds me of one time when my father and I were driving down the road. On the sidewalk was an attractive girl walking. My dad did not realize this, but I watched him staring at her. Not just a glance, but the usual staring and wanting that every one of us guys do. And my father PROFESSES to be a man close to god. If his wife asked him today if he found others attractive and he said no? He’d be a liar.
See, we as guys try to keep it from you; but girls, everywhere you go – the store, church, the local park – if you are halfway attractive, you are being looked at, and almost every single guy looking at you wants to sleep with you.
Girls don’t like this. I understand. It leads to memes like this one:
You know that guy that is your great friend? The one you think of like a brother? Yeah, he wants to sleep with you, too.
Guys are wired this way.
So I challenge all you women to ask your man. See what he says.
But if he denies it, he is a liar.