Replacing Valve Body Gasket(s) in my Transmission. 2000 Ford Explorer.

Replaced my valve body gasket on my Ford Explorer today. Problems shifting, had to manually drop into 1st to take off. Couldn’t go over 72 mph with it slipping. Overdrive acting up. I’d been babying this problem for several years, and it was getting worse. Looking at the worn out disintegrating gasket – it’s amazing … Read more

The Rocky Soil of New Hampshire

I’m traveling around, getting away from the heat in New Jersey. I’m still working via my laptop on various projects and still sourcing used books for my used book business. I was driving to a thrift the other day in New Hampshire, and saw where a tree had fallen over and exposed a lot of … Read more

Engaging and meeting people in real life

I’m a bit of an asshole sometimes (frequently?). However, I don’t apologize. I have a low tolerance for bullshit. Some people get more of my patience, even a little more leeway than others. Some get none. But this does not change the fact that relationships are essential in life. Connecting, networking, socializing, friending, whatever you … Read more

My dad now celebrates Christmas but denied it to us as kids

  When we were growing up as kids, we didn’t truly understand Christmas. See, myself and my siblings were raised without Christmas. Like, never. Now, we knew that there was such a thing as Christmas. We got off 2 weeks or so for Christmas break from school. I remember snagging Christmas trees and bringing them … Read more